so much to say but where do i begin...

i have self-checked n checked and throughout the year i have gradually improve what i thought was wrong. but maybe it's been taken for granted..

when you know a person so well, it can get to a stage where u dun even care to second guess or take the time to think is it me that has caused this, what have i done that might have upset ppl..

a lot of the time, people don't think they r wrong. n what more, they feel the other person is so wrong. but dun u see? it's not a matter of picking fights, or pointing fingers. it's a matter of communication. to speak what you feel, to listen, to understand, to comprehend.
disagreements don't necesserily have to leave ppl feeling they have 'lost' or 'won'. it shouldn't make a person feel pressured to change. it should serve as a reminder that there are compromises we can make to pacify a moment..

playing dumb doesn't work, being cold doesn't work.. u have to at least try to talk/listen...

don't hang onto a word/sentence and remember it for the rest of your life when the other person has sincerely made up for it...

it's not your happiness, it's not my happiness. it's OUR happiness.

if you love a person, is it so hard to put aside your pride n ego to sort out an issue(s)?

selfishness cannot be measured. that is true. are you a taker or a giver? which side do u sway most of the time?

oligations are a part of any relationship but it shouldn't be the only thing left.
being in a loving family is a privilege we were born with; keeping it happy is an effort.
you earn respect, you don't ask for it.
think before you speak, hurtful words cannot be taken back.
circle of life... different phases, different issues, different feelings.

ok time to go home now! =) just a scatterbrain today, instead of letting all these twirl in my head, might as well jot it down. free some space in the mind. too free at work. hehe... life in general is mostly bright n happy. ;)